PROMISE TO BE HAPPY

Way to Happiness...Hinduism

Swami Vivekananda's Beautiful message!
💬 Stay away from Anger.
It hurts ..Only You!
💬 If you are right then there is no need to get angry,
💬 And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry....
💬 Patience with family is love,
💬 Patience with others is respect.
💬 Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith.
💬 Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears...
💬 Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear...
💬 Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheer...
💬Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,
💬 Every problem comes to make us or break us,
💬 The choice is ours, whether we become victims or victorious.
💬 Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful...
💬 Happiness keeps You Sweet..But being sweet brings happiness...

Let all the good things mentioned in this message be a part of all of your lifes everyday.

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Message from the BYBL Team for 2014...
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Do "WE" Listen to "OTHERs" ...? Work Sheet 1

Participants are given an overview-a sense of what they might expect, as well as tips and ideas for how to get the most value. The daily schedule is reviewed, and there is an opportunity to ask questions.

The stage is set for people to engage powerfully with the material, maximize the value of their participation, and produce unprecedented results in a short period of time.

Already Always Listening™

In the Already Always Listening~ segment, we visit the notion that while we think of ourselves as open-minded and objective, in fact our approach to ourselves, our circumstances and others is often filtered and even obscured by pre existing notions and ideas-by our upbringing, our values, our past experiences.

In this session, we see those filters for what they are-an all-pervasive influence that profoundly colors our relationships with people, circumstances and even ourselves. An awareness of these filters, and a recognition of the striking limits that they impose, allows for a refreshing freedom. People, situations and our approach to life alter dramatically.

SKILLS

My esteemed colleagues,  of late, soft skills have emerged as a tool with enough power to make or break your career. How often do we encounter technically talented people who excel in their jobs, but whose career stalls beyond a certain point because they lack the social communication and relationship building skills to manage, work with and lead other people?  Soft skills is an umbrella term which includes communicative skills, listening skills, team skills, Leadership quality, creativity and logic, problem solving skills, diplomacy and change readiness, among others. 

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LOVE AND LIVE LIFE FULLY.

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. 

 

We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. 

 

We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. 

 

We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. 

 

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. 

 

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. 

 

We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. 

 

We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. 

 

We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. 

 

We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. 

 

These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. 

 

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. 

 

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. 

 

A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete ..

 

REMEMBER

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. An embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

 

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

 

- George Carlin

Life...

We never get what we want,
We never want what we get,
We never have what we like,
We never like what we have.
And still we live & love.
That's life...

Life Love Live it happily

Life is not a race. Life is all about making priorities.

What are your priorities? Give someone you love, 5 more minutes of your Time no matter how busy and you will have no regret forever. Once you lost it, it will be forever....

Life can only be understood backwards; But it must be lived forwards.

Life is an uncompromising reconciliation of uncompromising extremes.

Life is real ! Life is earnest ! And the grave is not its goal.

LIVE LIFE BEFORE YOU LEAVE LIFE...

I've Learned....

If you will take the time to read these. I promise you'll come away with an enlightened perspective. The subjects covered affect us all on a daily basis.
 A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: "How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes." She continued, "The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything."

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don't carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!

What I've learned over the years, is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Love the people who treat you right and have compassion for the ones who don't."

 They're written by Andy Rooney, a man who had the gift of saying so much with so few words. Enjoy... 

I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.

I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.

I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.

I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I've learned.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.

I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.

I've learned.... That money doesn't buy class.

I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've learned.... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've learned.... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.

I've learned.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.

I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.

I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

F A M I L Y

THE  KEY TO HAPPINESS  IS THE FAMILY
F.A.M.I.L.Y = FATHER AND MOTHER I LOVE YOU
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Stay Calm...Show Confidence at " ALL TIMES"

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• minimise environmental footprint
• conform to environmental legislation, and 
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Key benefits of ISO 14001 - Environment Certification

The benefits of ISO 14001 Certification - Environmental Certification include:

 

• Identifying cost savings with greater emphasis on resource, waste and energy management
• Improving corporate image and credibility 
• Quantifying, monitoring and controlling impact of operations on the environment
• Ensuring legislative awareness and compliance
• Improving environmental performance of supply chain
• Protecting the company, assets, shareholders and directors

BE YOUR BEST LEADER

Life is a journey. it is not a race. it has to be enjoyed at one's own pace with opportunities that we create for ourselves during this journey without disturbing the inner peace.

Life becomes a race when during our journey we start comparing ourselves with others. All comparisons are odius and tend to rob you of your inner tranquility.

Life becomes a rat race when during our journey we keep comparing our achievements/accumulations with those of others and compromise our values also to add more to the kitty.

1. You can do anything, but not everything.

—David Allen

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2. Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.

—Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

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3. The richest man is not he who has the most, but he who needs the least.

—Unknown Author

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4. You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take.

—Wayne Gretzky

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5. Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.

—Ambrose Redmoon

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6. You must be the change you wish to see in the world.

—Gandhi

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7. When hungry, eat your rice; when tired, close your eyes. Fools may laugh at me, but wise men will know what I mean.

—Lin-Chi

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8. The third-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority. The second-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority. The first-rate mind is only happy when it is thinking.

—A. A. Milne

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9. To the man who only has a hammer, everything he encounters begins to look like a nail.

—Abraham Maslow

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10. We are what we repeatedly do; excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.

—Aristotle

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11. A wise man gets more use from his enemies than a fool from his friends.

—Baltasar Gracian

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12. Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the men of old; seek what they sought.

—Basho

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13. Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

—Lao-Tze

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14. Everyone is a genius at least once a year. The real geniuses simply have their bright ideas closer together.

—Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

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15. What we think, or what we know, or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do.

—John Ruskin

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16. The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands but seeing with new eyes.

—Marcel Proust

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17. Work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching

—Unknown Author

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18. Try a thing you haven’t done three times. Once, to get over the fear of doing it. Twice, to learn how to do it. And a third time, to figure out whether you like it or not.

—Virgil Garnett Thomson

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19. Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.

—Will Rogers

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20. People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.

—Zig Ziglar

That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've learned...
That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
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I've learned....
That the Lord didn't do it all in one day.

Having lived a reasonably contented
life, I was musing over what a person should strive for to achieve happiness. I
drew up a list of a few essentials which I put forward for the readers’
appraisal.
1. First and foremost is GOOD HEALTH. If you do not enjoy good health you can never be
happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct from your
happiness.  
2. Second, A HEALTHY
BANK BALANCE. It need not run
into crores but should be enough to provide for creature comforts and something
to spare for recreation, like eating out, going to the pictures, travelling or
going on holidays on the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be only
demoralizing. Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in
one’s own eyes.  
3. Third, A HOME OF
YOUR OWN. Rented premises
can never give you the snug feeling of a nest which is yours for keeps that a
home provides: if it has a garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees
and flowers, see them grow and blossom, cultivate a sense of kinship with
them.  
4. Fourth, AN UNDERSTANDING
COMPANION, be it your spouse
or a friend. If there are too many misunderstandings, they will rob you of your
peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to bicker all the
time.  
5. Fifth, LACK OF ENVY towards those who have done better than you in life;
risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be very corroding;
avoid comparing yourself with others.  
6. Sixth, DO NOT ALLOW OTHER
PEOPLE to descend on you for gup-shup. By the
time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their
gossip-mongering.

7. Seventh, CULTIVATE SOME HOBBIES which can bring you a sense of fulfilment, such as
gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to
clubs or parties to get free drinks or to meet celebrities is criminal waste of
time.  
8. Eighth, every morning and evening, devote 15 minutes to INTROSPECTION. In the morning, 10 minutes should be spent on
stilling the mind and then five in listing things you have to do that day. In
the evening, five minutes to still the mind again, and ten to go over what you
had undertaken to do.  

RICHNESS is not Earning More, Spending More  Or
Saving  More, but … 
 
"RICHNESS IS WHEN YOU NEED NO MORE"
Phrases of Wisdom!

1. Life would be perfect if :- anger had mute button, mistake had back button, hard times had fast forward button and good times had pause button.

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7  Principles of an Eagle
1. Eagles fly alone at high altitude and not with sparrows or with
  other small birds. No other bird can go to the height of the eagle.
  When Moses went to commune with God on the mountain, he
  left the crowd at the foothills. Stay away from sparrows and
  ravens.

Eagles  fly with eagles.




7  Principles of an Eagle
2.  Eagles have strong vision.   They have the  ability to focus on
    something up to five kilometers away. When an eagle sites
    his prey, he narrows his focus on it and sets out to get it. No
    matter the obstacle, the
    eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it.
   
Have  a vision and remain  focused no matter what  the  
   obstacle and you will succeed.




7  Principles of an Eagle
3.  Eagles do not eat  dead things. They feed  only on fresh prey.
    Vultures eat dead animals, but eagles will not.

Be  careful with what you  feed your eyes and  ears with, especially  in movies and on  TV. Steer clear of  outdated and old information.   Always do your  research well.




4.  Eagles love the storm.   When clouds gather,  the eagles get excited.  The eagle uses the  storm's winds to lift  it  higher.  Once  it finds the
wing  of the storm, the  eagle uses the raging  storm to lift him  above the clouds.
This  gives the eagle an  opportunity to glide  and  rest its wings.
In  the meantime all the  other birds hide in  the leaves and branches  of the trees. 
We  can use the storms  of life to rise  to greater heights.
Achievers  relish challenges and  use them profitably.

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5.  The Eagle tests before  it trusts. When a  female eagle meets a  male and they want  to mate, she flies  down to earth with  the male pursuing her  and she picks a  twig.  She flies  back into the air  with the male pursuing  her. Once she has  reached a height high  enough for her, she  lets the twig fall  to the ground and  watches it as it  falls. The male chases  after the twig. The  faster it falls, the  faster he chases it.   
He  has to catch it  before it falls to  the ground.  He  then brings it back  to the female eagle.
  The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a higher altitude and then drops the twig for the male to chase. This goes on for hours, with the height increasing until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of catching the twig which shows commitment. Then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her.
Whether  in private life or  in business, one should  test commitment of people  intended for partnership.




6.  When ready to lay  eggs, the female and  male eagle identify  a place very high  on a cliff where  no predators can reach.   The male flies  to earth and picks  thorns and lays them  on the crevice of  the cliff, then flies  to earth again to  collect twigs which   he lays  in  the intended nest.   He flies back to  earth and picks thorns  laying them on top  of the twigs. He  flies back to earth  and picks soft grass  to cover the thorns.When  this first layering  is complete the male  eagle runs back to  earth and picks more  thorns, lays them on  the nest; runs   back to get grass   it on top of  the thorns, then   plucks  his  feathers  to complete  the  nest. The thorns on  the outside of the  nest protect it from  possible intruders. Both  male and female eagles  participate in raising  the eagle family. She  lays the eggs and  protects them; he builds  the nest and hunts.  During the time of  training the young ones  to fly, the mother  eagle throws the eaglets  out of the nest.  Because they are scared,  they jump into the  nest again.Next, she  throws them out and  then takes off the  soft layers of the  nest, leaving the
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6.  the thorns bare. When  the scared eaglets again  jump into the nest,  they are pricked
by  thorns.  Shrieking and  bleeding they jump out  again this time wondering  why the mother and  father who love them  so much  are torturing  them.  Next, mother  eagle pushes them off  the cliff into the  air.As they shriek in  fear, father eagle flies  out and catches them  up on his back  before they fall and  brings them back to  the cliff. This goes  on for sometime until  they start flapping  their wings. They get  excited at this newfound  knowledge that they  can fly.
The  preparation of the nest  teaches us to prepare  for changes; The preparation  for the family teaches  us that active participation  of both partners leads  to success; The being  pricked by the thorns  tells us that sometimes  being too comfortable  where we are may  result into our not  experiencing life, not  progressing and not  learning at all.   The thorns of life  come to teach us  that we need to  grow, get out of  the nest and live  on. We may not  know it but the  seemingly comfortable and  safe haven may have  thorns.
The  people who love us  do not let us languish  in sloth but push  us hard to grow  and prosper.Even in  their seemingly bad  actions they have good   intentions for us.
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7. When an Eagle  grows old, his feathers 

become weak and  cannot take him as fast as he 
should.  When he feels weak and about to die,  he retires to a place far away in  the rocks. While there, he plucks out  every feather on his body until he  is completely bare. He stays in this  hiding place until he has grown new  feathers, then he can come out.

We  occasionally need to  shed off old habits  & items that burden  us without adding to  our lives..
     Author Dr. Myles Monroe Edited
 He said, `Stop complaining!  Differentiate yourself from your
competition. Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain.
 An Eagle soars  above the crowd.''
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50 Positive Qualities

1. A beautiful smile!
2. A thoughtful mind.
3. The use of good manners.
4. The ability to receive a compliment.
5. The ability to give a compliment.
6. Self respect.
7. Self discipline.
8. Being trustworthy to yourself and others.
9. Non-judgmental of yourself and others.
10. Open minded.
11. Calmness when faced with adversity.
12. Understanding of yourself and others.
13. Polite even when others are not.
14. Flexible when things have changed.
15. Optimistic when surrounded by pessimism.
16. Kind to people who don't deserve it.
17. Accepting of yourself and others.
18. Feeling lovable no matter what.
19. Resourceful during a time of need.
20. Awareness of your surroundings.
21. Mindful of your own needs.
22. Enthusiastic when times are hard.
23. Responsibility for yourself at all times.
24. Comfortable in your own skin.
25. Confident in who you are.
26. Ambition to be your best self.
27. Motivation to live your best life.
28. Courageous in the face of difficulty.
29. Boldness when faced with a new challenge.
30. Compassionate for yourself and others.
31. Dependable.
32. Healthy inside - fit on the outside.
33. Gentle with yourself and others.
34. Satisfied with your choices in life.
35. Self controlled when faced with controversy.
36. Maturity when dealing with childish situations.
37. The ability to relax and have a little fun.
38. Assertive when confronted with pushy people.
39. The ability to be a great friend.
40. Hopeful when faced with at hopeless situation.
41. Beautiful on the inside.
42. Participate in personal growth.
43. Reliable.
44. The ability to be teachable.
45. The desire to learn.
46. Financial intelligence.
47. Realistic.
48. Determination to fix things you don't like.
49. Generosity to yourself and others.
50. Creative.
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TWO WOLVES
One evening an old Zarthosti
told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all.
"One is Angre Mainyu -  It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed,
arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false
pride, superiority, and ego.
"The other is Spenta Mainyu -  It is
joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence,
empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his
grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Zarthosti replied, "The one you feed."